Conflict

Unresolved conflicts can be a constant source of stress. Are you harboring anger or resentment against a loved one, friend, or co-worker? It’s time to learn how to let it go!
Use these tips to help rid yourself of this type of stress:
1.        Bring it out into the open. If you’re hurt, let the other person know. It’s possible that they’re unaware of how the event affected you. Once it’s out in the open, try to resolve it together.
2.        Express your emotions creatively. Write your thoughts in a journal or release your negative emotions in a creative outlet like painting, composing music, dancing, or other activities.
3.        Put it in perspective. There are much worse things that have or could have happened, right? Be thankful it wasn’t worse.
4.        Forgive them. As you’ve experienced, holding onto this negativity has hurt only you. Refuse to let it affect your life any further. Forgive them, let it go, and move on with your life free from this stress. If the other party isn’t willing to forgive, that’s not of your concern. Once you forgive, move on.
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Life: Anatomy of a curveball

Hey batter, batter…..

 

The curveball grip allows a pitcher to maintain a good grip on the ball, and therefore, control. The whole idea of the curveball is for the ball to curve as it reaches the plate, breaking below the bat of the hitter.

Now, it is much better for the pitcher throwing a curveball, if the batter thinks a fastball is being thrown. Therefore, secrecy should be maintained in the wind-up process.

"Circumstance" is the pitcher in the game of life; it relies on secrecy (in the form of unforeseen circumstances). You are the batter who must deal with whatever pitch is being thrown. It would be nice if every pitch was right over the plate and you could hit a home run on every swing. But it ain’t happening. You will be thrown fastballs, curveballs, occasionally, the off speed pitch (known as the change up) and yes every once and a while one right over the plate that you can hit.

As a good batter, you should know the arsenal of the pitcher you are facing and be prepared. It would be ridiculous to presume every pitch will be right over the plate at a speed in which you can handle it. You can predict all you want but until the pitch is thrown, there is no way of truly knowing; therefore, you must be prepared for all pitches.

 

We want a pitcher not a……

 

Oh yea, did I mention the "wild pitch" this is where neither, the batter, pitcher nor the fan knows where the ball is going. There have been many batters hit by such pitches, some shake it off and get right back in the game, others are ball shy and step back away from the plate afraid of being hit again.

In order to hit home runs in this life we need to shake off any pitches that are thrown at us. We need to understand that "life" will throw all sorts of pitches your way and you (the batter) must be prepared for whatever that pitch is. A good hitter, one that understands the pitchers arsenal, will hit many more homeruns than the batter who does not.

As you face "circumstance" (the pitcher), it is imperative to be prepared. You will get "beaned" by the occasional wild pitch, but shake it off and  climb back over the plate and keep swinging.

Remember a hitter with a high homerun percentage is going to get more walks in life than those that do not!

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Stop Whining and Start Winning

     

     Please stop the whining!
 
     People seriously. No one wants to hear the poor me stories, everyone has one, some choose to tell EVERYONE theirs and others choose to keep winning not whining. Not long ago I got a call from a friend of mine, who proceeded to whine about this and whine about that. Life is treating him so unfair. Life is not fair! Everyone goes through things at one time or another.
    
In all actuality if people would stop and examine why life has treated them the way it has, they would soon realize it is because of poor decisions they have made in their past. We have all made decisions that result in less than stellar results. Some people realize that is what happens and learn from their mistakes. I get perturbed with people who blame all of their problems on other people. If you don’t like the circumstances then get out of it.
    
Be a man or woman and take responsibility for your own actions. Stop trying to change the world when you only have the power to change yourself. If you change the way, you look at things then things will change. Are you ready to start winning? Then STOP WHINING!
    
If you liked this post, please leave a comment, if you didn’t like this post please leave a comment. Just don’t whine…………..
 
 

 

 
 
 
 

 

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Marketing Online Free or for Little Money in 3 Steps

 

 I knew a man who grabbed a cat by the tail and learned 40 percent more about cats than the man who didn’t.                                
~ Mark Twain    

          Here they are. Three steps to learning online marketing for free or for little money and doing it better than the other person.

  1. Google).     Google is one of the best resources for learning online marketing. As simple, as this seems it is a reality. When a person is learning how to write a novel, what do they do? They read novels. It is the same with online marketing. A majority of online marketing is done with Google. You should start by reading every free resource you can on how to market online. You will be amazed at how much you will learn in a very short period. You can do a Google search and find a plethora of online information totally free. When I did a Google search for "free online marketing information”, I got a response of 293,000,000 results. That’s a lot of information folks.
  2. Book Store).     There are many experts in the online marketing industry and a lot of them have books on how to do this. Why reinvent the wheel? It is always smarter to learn from someone else’s mistakes, usually cheaper too, than to make the mistakes yourself and have to start back at square one. The nice thing about bookstores like Barnes & Noble or Borders is you can grab a couple of titles from the bookshelf and glean the information from any title you choose. With a notepad in hand, it is a great source of free information (other than the price of a couple of cups of coffee). Take some time out and go visit a bookstore nearest you and do some research. You will be amazed at how much information you can get free. If you find a title you like a lot then purchase it. We do not want to put the bookstore out of business and cut our source of free information. 
  3. Internet Marketing Courses).     There are individuals that offer internet marketing courses for free and some are offered at a small fee. What is your online marketing worth to you? I know that for me I wanted to really excel and learn as fast as I could about this exciting industry. So, I went on a mission to find the best course I could on online marketing. There are many out there, so you should do your due diligence to find what works best for you.

     You see most people will not do what it takes to really learn something new. Most people are satisfied with where they are. It may seem like to much effort continually improving oneself. Therefore, they are setting their own limitation in what they get out of life.

     It is easier to blame the system than it is to blame oneself. However, you are not one of those people or you would not be reading this. So be proud of yourself for not being one of the masses. Ultimately, we are all responsible for what we get out of life.  

     If you would like to see the online marketing system I chose to help accelerate my online marketing, head over to www.opendoorsnow.com.  

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Marketing Strategies for a Small Business I learned one Summer

Marketing Strategies for business owners

“Sweeten the Kool-Aid boys,” He said spewing the Kool-Aid across the sidewalk. His face contorting as the sourness crept through his cheeks.  This is one of the first marketing strategies for a small business I learned one summer when very young and on break.

     You see, my friend and I decided we would open a Kool-Aid stand. Take the five-cent pack of Kool-Aid and become cold drink moguls. We would take the profit from the sale of our first batch, invest in more, and expand until we had stands on every street corner.

     We were the first stand of the summer to set up, so profits should be a windfall. We soon realized it doesn’t matter if you’re the first in the game, if your competition has a better product than you do, then you might as well go home.            

     That is precisely what happened; a couple of other kids saw our idea and decided they would do the same thing. The difference being they improved on our product, they added sugar to the Kool-Aid!

     Now, it doesn’t take an MBA to figure what happened to our customers. They fled to the competition. We tried to get back our customers by cutting our prices we went from 25 cents, to 15, then 10, a nickel. You see it doesn’t matter what your price is, if the other guy has a better product or service, they will out sell you every time, period.

     After a day of drinking sour Kool-Aid, we packed up our wagon with all of the stuff, dumped out the rest of the Kool-Aid, took the fifty-cents we had made and bought Kool-Aid from our competition. We grumpily put our heads down, took turns pulling the wagon and kicking stones on the way home, wondering what we had done wrong. 

     In a world of stiff competition, having an edge over your opposition can mean the difference in profits or losses. When choosing a particular product to sell you must believe in it, you must know it is the best product out there for your customer. If you do then this attitude will convey itself onto your customers. They will buy your product over the competition because they feel it is the best fit for them.            

I might not have made it big in the cold drink industry, but I did not go away empty handed either. I learned a valuable lesson that hot summer day, “Sweeten the Kool-Aid!”  

To check out the top notch product I chose to market click here.

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The Way of the Vulcan

 "Live long and prosper" —-Spock

These words resonate loud and clear when spoken by Leonard Nimoy as Spock, the Vulcan in Star Trek.

It appears that Vulcan’s understand that health and prosperity are possible. After all, Vulcan’s do not let emotions rule their thinking, they only think logically. Therefore, it only seems logical that Spock thinks living long and prospering is possible. 

If we humans would start believing and stop letting emotions rule us, then we could do powerful things with our lives. It is logical that we drift towards what we focus our minds on.

There is a law of attraction that goes to work when we develop a solid plan. Get emotions out of the way and let logic take over. We reap what we sow and the more we sow the more we reap, this is logical. If you work hard, you will reap the benefits. If you do not and still expect to reap the benefits, well…”That is illogical Captain."

If you want to use your logic to prosper then click here.

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Call to Action

I have learned that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. –Henry David Thoreau

    

We are what we think we are.

The mind has no way of knowing whether a vivid mental picture is real or fake. For instance, if you close your eyes and envision a "lemon".

Feel it in your hands, squeeze it. Now envision taking a knife and cutting the lemon smell the fresh cut lemon, vividly. Now, take the lemon and hold it above your mouth. Squeeze the lemon, feel the anticipation as your mouth starts to pucker?

This is as real in your mind as if you had an actual lemon. Start to envision positive things in your life.

Envision health.

Envison wealth.

As the mind reacts to what it percieves as realities your actions will change.

When your actions change you change. Action is the key to getting what you want. So, close your eyes and envision your life the way it was intended to be.

Friends, start with action.

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Are you an Entrepreneur or a Wishepreneur?



Great minds have purposes; others have wishes. ~Washington Irving

         Are you an entrepreneur or a wishepreneur?

A wishepreneur is someone that wishes they could get rich by doing nothing. They would like to post a blog and watch the riches come rolling in. Well, I am here to tell you folks it ain’t happening!  It takes work to make money.     

I learned this lesson when I was very young. You see, when I was five or six years old, I meet this old indian named Jedadiah that was chopping wood for my grandpa. He walked around the corner of the house and saw me with my eyes closed.

I was wishing my grandparents were rich so I could have anything I wanted. Jedadiah dropped the load of wood in a neat stack on the porch, I jumped with a startle, and he waved for me to follow him.     

Leading me to the woodpile he showed me how to use the axe and had me split a couple of the smaller pieces of wood. After, about six sticks were lying on the ground he told me to pick up a stick of wood.

However, he told me at the same time I pick up the wood with one hand; wish that the other hand had wood in it.

I did. 

“Which one filled up first?” He asked.            

I learned that day that you could wish with one hand, work with the other, and I find out which one fills up first.  The wisdom that old indian instilled into me that day is still with me.

You can not wish your way to prosperity.

It takes hard work to make money. Do you want to be an entrepreneur or a wishepreneur? You choose your path.

You decide which will fill up first.            

If you are not a wishepreneur but an entrepreneur then click here.

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